Etiquette

For those who always like to read the manual, this page covers everything you might want to know about booking and enjoying our date.

Planning a Date

Availability

Same-day bookings are sometimes possible, but planning ahead is the smartest move. Decisiveness is a rare and attractive trait. Returning clients may find me more flexible on short notice.

Location

I’m based in Berlin, Germany. Unless I’ve announced otherwise, you can assume I’m here and available.

Hosting Options

On most days, I’m available for outcalls to your hotel or home. I can visit you in any part of Berlin.

If you would like to visit me, incalls may be possible for returning clients or with identity verification (details on request). If you do not wish to share your full name, please do not request incall.

I can also book a hotel for us to meet, if you cover costs in advance.

Travel & FMTY

I don’t tour at present, but it may be possible for me to visit you in other German cities for bookings of at least 6 hours. A minimum of 7 days’ notice is recommended.

Can’t make it to Berlin? I can fly to visit you (FMTY) in most parts of Europe—or I can accompany you on your travels—for a minimum of 24 hours. All travel expenses must be covered in advance.

Social Dates

For those seeking a deep connection, beginning our date with an excursion beyond the hotel room is an ideal introduction. I offer various options for extended dates with flirtatious preludes at a preferential rate.  See Date Ideas for a list of suggestions. For longer bookings or if you have something special in mind, just ask for the applicable rate.

Should this be your first foray into meeting professional companions, I recommend booking social time first or as part of our date. This is an ideal way to give yourself space to feel at ease and to get to know me. Trust me, time will fly faster than you expect.

More Than Two

I am bisexual and would love to meet you with your partner or arrange for one (or more!) of my friends to join us.

Rates

See here for information on my compensation. As a rule, rates are all-inclusive. Unless you are a truly exceptional deviant (congratulations!), in which case bespoke rates may apply.

If my rates have changed since we last met, you are welcome to continue paying the prior amount (please confirm this with me first).

Booking A Date

First Impressions Matter

For the smoothest possible booking process, please send initial introductions via my Contact page. This gives me all the details I need to make sure we’re a good fit and confirm our schedules align.  If you’re worried about getting it right, you’re probably overthinking things. This isn’t a college application letter. For shorter bookings, a few sentences are fine.

For inquiries via Telegram, WhatsApp, or Signal, please include as much of the information requested on the form as possible. I ask for this information for a reason and cannot confirm bookings without it. Submitting an incomplete form delays us both. 

To protect your privacy and my focus, I don’t take bookings via phone calls, SMS, social media DMs, or pigeon post.

The Type of Company I Cherish

Eccentric dorks with good manners and a sense of humour. My experiences in this industry have taught me that chemistry is something we collaboratively craft.

Your age (assuming over 18), ethnicity, gender, sexuality, disability, neurodivergence, education level, prior experience, height, etc. do not influence whether I wish to meet you or not. You are under no obligation to disclose any of these details when reaching out, unless you wish to do so or it would be essential for me to know in advance. If you have needs I’m unable to meet, I always do my best to put you in touch with another escort who can. What matters to me is simple politeness, a little forwards planning, good hygiene, and open communication.

What to Expect During the Booking

Payment Policies

Unless otherwise agreed, compensation should be given in cash at the start of our meeting. If we meet in public, please place it inside something discreet, such as a gift bag or book.

If we meet at your hotel or home, please place the payment in an envelope in the bathroom, so I can excuse myself to check after arriving. If I am hosting, I request that you place it somewhere prominent after arriving, then excuse yourself to the bathroom to freshen up. This ensures formalities are out of the way, so we can focus on enjoying each other’s company.

For payments in USD, confirm this with me beforehand and add 20% to the total converted rate to cover exchange rates.

Services

I don’t have a ‘menu’—that’s just not my style. If you have specific wishes or expectations, please share them beforehand.

Outfit Requests

If you have something specific in mind, let me know in advance. I’m happy to accommodate when possible.

Extending Our Time Together

If you’d like to extend while we’re together and my schedule allows, I’m happy to do so.

Practicalities

Booking Fees

For some meetings, a small booking fee must be paid upfront to secure the booking. Booking fees are generally non-refundable in the event of a cancellation. In some cases, the booking fee may be transferable to a future appointment if you let me know with sufficient notice.

In the rare event I have to cancel for personal reasons, any booking fee paid will be refunded as soon as possible. The exception is if I am forced to cancel due to genuinely unacceptable behaviour on your part.

Gifts & Tips

Rather than sending a gift, I’d love for you to donate to one of the non-profits I personally support: Sinergia Animal, Shrimp Welfare Project, or Give Directly. See my wishlist if you’d still like to send me a gift.

Duo Bookings

For bookings together with other escorts, both individuals remain self-employed, independent professionals with no authority to enter into agreements on behalf of the other. No employment relationship or agency exists between us. Each escort sets and holds full responsibility for their own rates, terms, and boundaries. Where rates differ, it is courteous to match the higher rate—this is standard etiquette in the industry. Participation in any booking is entirely voluntary and agreed upon independently. Where one escort engages in communication on behalf of the other, this is done with the full consent of the other.

Privacy & Safety

Legality of Sex Work in Germany

The sale and purchase of escorting services is legal and regulated in Germany. Independent providers like myself operate freely, and clients face no risk of criminal consequences for booking such services.

In fact, ‘sexuelle Selbstbestimmung’ (the right to sexual self-determination) is a protected personal freedom under German constitutional and human rights law. Consenting adults have the right to make private decisions, including engaging in sex work or paying for it. Seeing an escort in Germany is not considered scandalous or taboo. Frankly, no one is paying attention. You're not doing anything unusual or risky—just making a personal, legal choice, like countless others do every day.

If you’re used to a different legal model, this means that working practices and expectations for client behaviour may differ from what you’re used to. In Germany, there's an emphasis on transparency, safety, and mutual respect. This means that some practices common elsewhere (like vague negotiations or coded language) are unnecessary here. Open and clear communication is encouraged and expected.

Your Privacy, Protected

Discretion is of vital importance to me. Short of zip-wiring through your hotel room window, I’m open to discussing whatever arrangements will make you feel most comfortable (provided this does not put me at risk.) I can sign an NDA when required. I ask that you return the same courtesy and respect my privacy.

My accounts are all protected with 2FA. I always use a premium (Mullvad) VPN, secure web browser (Brave), and encrypted email service (Proton). As an independent escort, no one but me has access to our communications. I also use privacy screens on all devices and individual password protection on all messaging apps. I have completed several high-level trainings on online security and perform regular audits to identify potential vulnerabilities. I always recommend using Protonmail and/or Signal for communications if you are concerned about privacy. I accept payment in cryptocurrency for those who prefer it.